Let’s pack your boudoir bags
You’ve booked your boudoir session—WOOHOO! I can feel your excitement from here! I bet you’re a mix of “I’m about to be a total badass,” mixed with a pinch of “Wait…what did I just sign up for again?!” Trust me, you’re in for an unforgettable experience. But before we get to the part where you feel like the most amazing version of yourself, we’ve got some prepping to do! So let’s dive into the ultimate boudoir photoshoot checklist—the dos, the don’ts, and everything in between. Let’s make sure you’re ready to totally slay!
Your Detroit Boudoir Photoshoot checklist
DO: Own Your Unique Beauty
First thing’s first—throw out any doubts or second-guessing about how you look. Seriously, toss ’em in the trash! Boudoir photography is about celebrating YOU—your body, your confidence, your everything. It’s about embracing your hotness exactly as you are right now. Trust me when I say that every single body is boudoir-worthy. Your curves, your angles, those killer eyes—ALL of it.
Whether you’re rocking some serious curves, sporting cute freckles, or you’ve got tiger stripes that tell your story, I want you to walk into this session ready to show it all off. Because that’s what makes you, you. There’s no one-size-fits-all sexy. The goal is for you to feel confident in your skin and let that shine through in your photos.
DON’T: Stress About the Poses
Stop right there—don’t waste a second practicing poses in the mirror (unless you want to, because hey, that’s fun too!). One of the biggest boudoir myths is that you need to come in like some kind of posing expert. You don’t! That’s what I’m here for. My job is to guide you every step of the way so you feel confident and comfortable. I’ll show you all the right angles, the best lighting, and I’ll even be your personal cheerleader along the way.
You don’t have to worry about anything! All you have to do is show up, let loose, and trust the process. Between my direction and the magic that happens in the studio, we’re going to create some fire photos that capture your true self.
DO: Give Your Skin Some Love
Glowing skin? Yes, please! In the days leading up to your shoot, make sure you’re drinking lots of water and moisturizing daily. Keep exfoliation gentle, and if you’re into it, do a nice, hydrating face mask a day or two before your session. Trust me—your skin is going to pop in those photos. But here’s the thing—don’t go crazy with new skincare. This is not the time to experiment with that chemical peel your cousin swears by or try a brand-new product you’ve never used before. Stick to what works!
And for the love of all things boudoir, no sunburns! If you’re planning on soaking up some rays, slather on that SPF. A fresh sunburn is not the accessory we want for your shoot.
DON’T: Stress About Getting the “Perfect” Tan
Look, I get it—sometimes we feel better with a little glow, but don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself to get the perfect tan before your boudoir shoot. I promise, no one is going to care if you didn’t hit up the tanning booth (and actually, please don’t—hello, tan lines!). If you want a little extra color, opt for a subtle self-tanner a few days before, but do a test run first to make sure it doesn’t go all streaky. We can also fix any tan lines or redness in post-editing, so don’t sweat it!
DO: Plan Your Outfits to Match Your Vibe
Now we’re getting to the fun stuff—outfits! When it comes to boudoir, your wardrobe should reflect you and how you want to feel during the session. Want to feel like a sultry queen in lace lingerie? Bring it on! Prefer something a little more playful, like a cute bralette and high-waisted panties? Go for it. Feeling your fiercest in an oversized sweater or nothing but a sheet? YES, you are my people!
Bring a few different options to mix things up, from lingerie to an oversized T-shirt that falls just right off your shoulder. And hey, let’s not forget about accessories. Jewelry, heels, stockings—it’s all fair game! But don’t worry if you’re unsure what to bring. We’ll plan it out together so you feel fully prepared to rock your session.
DON’T: Go Overboard with Accessories
While accessories can be super fun, we don’t want them to steal the spotlight. Keep it simple! A pair of killer heels or a necklace that makes you feel powerful is more than enough. Too many accessories can become distracting, and we’re here to focus on YOU! So, bring one or two pieces that complement your vibe, and let’s make sure the focus stays where it belongs—on your beautiful self.
DO: Get Your Beauty Sleep
This one’s simple, but super important—get some sleep! I know, I know, easier said than done, right? But try to aim for a solid night of beauty rest before your shoot. You’ll feel more energized, your skin will be glowing, and your eyes will be bright and alive. The goal is to wake up refreshed and ready to bring that radiant energy into the studio.
DON’T: Overthink Your “Imperfections”
Let me get real with you for a second—don’t stress over tiny imperfections like blemishes or scars. That little zit that popped up this morning? It’s fine. That scar from years ago? It’s part of your story. You’re gorgeous, full stop. Plus, I’m a wizard with editing. I can smooth out scars or pesky blemishes if that’s what you want. We can go as natural or as retouched as you’re comfortable with—just let me know what feels right for you.
DO: Pack a Bag of Essentials
Okay, time to get organized. Make sure you bring a little bag of essentials with you to the session. Here’s your checklist:
- 2-3 outfits (mix it up!)
- Any accessories you want to use (heels, jewelry, etc.)
- Makeup for touch-ups (especially your fave lipstick)
- A hairbrush or comb
- Water and a snack (because hello, energy)- I will have snacks available in the studio but it’s always a good idea to bring what you love!
- A comfy robe or cover-up for in between shots
Being prepared will help you feel more at ease and ready to focus on looking fabulous!
DON’T: Be Afraid to Speak Up
Listen, this session is all about you. If you have questions, concerns, or specific ideas you want to try, tell me! Whether it’s a particular pose or something you’re feeling self-conscious about, I want to know so we can work together to make this experience everything you want it to be. Communication is key to making sure your boudoir session is not only fun, but also tailored perfectly to you.
DO: Have the Time of Your Life!
This is the most important one: HAVE FUN! Boudoir is about embracing yourself, letting loose, and feeling powerful. This is your moment to celebrate who you are and capture it in all its glory. Don’t be afraid to laugh, get playful, or let your inner goddess out to play. This experience is for YOU, and you deserve to feel incredible every step of the way.
This boudoir photoshoot checklist is an outline to get you started with planning. Remember, this is your time to shine. You don’t need to be perfect or stress about every little detail. All you need to do is show up, trust the process, and let your inner fire take center stage. You’ve got this—and I cannot wait to capture every stunning moment. Let’s make some boudoir magic happen!
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